Thursday, May 19, 2016

Its really the people who suck

For my 20th birthday I found out I was HSV2 positive. When people find out they say wow that must suck because you’re still young and experiencing. But it doesn’t suck because of my age, it sucks because of the stigma on this skin condition is something the people who do not have it will never let go. It sucks because guys want to get with me will find out I have it and never want to talk to me again. It sucks because people make jokes about it like it’s funny when someone else has it. It sucks because the way I got it was in no way justified. But it doesn’t suck, really.

Finding out I had herpes changed my life. Of course I was depressed the first several months or so, but wouldn’t be? Having herpes made me realize that there is more to relationships, or life, than just having sex with anyone because they want to, not because I wanted to. Do you know how many guys I let take advantage of me because they wanted something and I thought as a woman, it was my duty to please them? Not anymore, since I have herpes. Having herpes made me stop judging people in every way, because would I want them to judge me based on my flaws? Having herpes helped me become a better human being than I use to be. It helped me become a better friend than I used to be. Having herpes doesn’t suck, at all.

Of course I still get upset about it sometimes, not because I have it, but because I trusted a man who is a piss poor excuse for a human being, let alone a man. Of course I get upset when people talk about it. It’s me they’re talking about, me being nasty, me being a slut, me being untouchable; so they think. It’s not their fault they’re uneducated. The health classes in school don’t tell you all the facts, they just tell you the symptoms, and Google Images sucks ass at showing people what herpes looks like.

Advice to other people with herpes

Of course I get upset when in an argument with someone and it all comes down to me having herpes, but if that’s the only bad thing they can say about me, then I’m obviously doing something right with my life. I could say I am more okay with myself who has herpes than most woman who are without herpes.

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